PERBEDAAN KEBERMAKNAAN HIDUP PADA JANDA PARUH BAYA

KARENA KEMATIAN DAN PERCERAIAN

TESIS

Untuk memenuhi sebagian persyaratan mencapai

Derajat Magister Sains Psikologi

OLEH :

EMMA RIANTI

201110440211002

PROGRAM PASCASARJANA

UNIVERSITAS MUHAMMADIYAH MALANG

TAHUN 2014

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KATA PENGANTAR

Puji dan syukur kepada ALLAH SWT karena dengan rahmat dan karunia-Nya

serta izin restu dari-Nya jugalah, penulis dapat menyelesaikan Tesis yang berjudul

“Perbedaan Kebermaknaan Hidup Pada Janda Paruh Baya Karena Kematian Dan

Perceraian”. Tesis ini disusun untuk memenuhi salah satu persyaratan memperoleh gelar

Magister Sains Psikologi di Universitas Muhammadiyah Malang.

Penyelesaian Tesis ini atas bantuan banyak pihak baik moril maupun materil

yang tidak mungkin penulis sebutkan satu persatu. Untuk itu sebagai ungkapan rasa

terima kasih yang setinggi-tingginya penulis sampaikan kepada yang terhormat

Bapak/Ibu :

1. Dr. Muhadjir Effendi, MAP selaku Rektor Universitas Muhammadiyah Malang

2. Dr. Latipun, M. Kes selaku Direktur Pascasarjana Universitas Muhammadiyah

Malang, sekaligus sebagai Ketua Program Studi Magister Psikologi.

3. Dr. Diah Karmiyati, Psi. selaku dosen pembimbing I

4. Zakarija Achmat, S.Psi., M.Si. selaku dosen pembimbing II

5. Dr. Latipun, M. Kes. selaku dosen penguji I

6. Dra. Cahyaning S., M.Si, Psi. selaku dosen penguji II

7. Para dosen dan Pembina mata kuliah serta para staf administrasi dilingkungan

program Pasca Sarjana Universitas Muhammadiyah Malang atas pelayanan dan

fasilitas yang telah diberikan selama perkuliahan.

8. Terimakasih kepada Kantor Kelurahan Teluk Dalam dan Kelurahan Pelambuan

Di Banjarmasin (Kalimantan Selatan) yang telah memberikan informasi dan

bantuan serta ketersediaanya untuk memberikan saya izin untuk mengambil

subyek penelitian di Kelurahan setempat.

9. Bapak dan Ibu, suami serta saudara-saudaraku yang dengan segenap hati telah

memberikan dukungan baik moril, doa serta selalu mendorong untuk segera

menyelesaikan Tesis ini.

10. Terimakasih juga kepada Dd Lia, Maya, Bu Tanty, Ratna, Dina, & Icha atas

dukungan dan bantuannya.

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Penulis menyadari bahwa Tesis ini masih jauh dari kesempurnaan dan masih

terdapat banyak kekurangan dan kelemahan yang disebabkan oleh kurangnya

pengetahuan penulis dan keterbatasan waktu. Untuk itu segala kritikan dan saran yang

bersifat membangun sangat penulis harapkan.

Akhir kata, penulis berharap semoga Tesis ini masih jauh dari kesempurnaan

dan masih terdapat banyak kekurangan dan kelemahan yang disebabkan oleh kurangnya

pengetahuan penulis dan keterbatasan waktu. Untuk itu segala kritikan dan saran yang

bersifat membangun sangat penulis harapkan.

Akhir kata, penulis berharap semoga Tesis ini bermanfaat bagi pembaca,

terutama para pemerhati di bidang psikologi.

Malang, 29 Januari 2014

Emma Rianti

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DAFTAR ISI

LEMBAR PENGESAHAN .................................................................................... i

SURAT PERNYATAAN ........................................................................................ ii

KATA PENGANTAR ............................................................................................ iii

DAFTAR ISI ........................................................................................................... v

DAFTAR TABEL ................................................................................................... vi

DAFTAR LAMPIRAN .......................................................................................... vii

INTISARI ................................................................................................................ viii

ABSTRACT ............................................................................................................ ix

LATAR BELAKANG

Latar Belakang Permasalahan ...................................................................... 1

TINJAUAN PUSTAKA .......................................................................................... 7

METODE PENELITIAN

Jenis Penelitian .............................................................................................. 9

Subjek Penelitian ........................................................................................... 9

Instrumen Penelitian ...................................................................................... 11

Prosedur Penelitian ........................................................................................ 11

Analisa Data ................................................................................................... 12

HASIL DAN PEMBAHASAN

Hasil Pengujian Independent T-test ............................................................... 12

Pembahasan .................................................................................................. 12

Kesimpulan ................................................................................................... 13

Implikasi Hasil Penelitian ............................................................................. 14

DAFTAR PUSTAKA ............................................................................................. 15

LAMPIRAN ............................................................................................................ 18

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DAFTAR TABEL

Tabel 1. Kebermaknaan Hidup Janda Paruh Baya Karena Kematian dan

Perceraian ............................................................................................... 12

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DAFTAR LAMPIRAN

Lampiran 1 : Kuesioner MLQ .............................................................................. 19

Lampiran 2 : Data Jawaban Responden .............................................................. 22

Lampiran 3 : Uji Validitas ..................................................................................... 24

Lampiran 4 : Uji Reliabilitas ................................................................................. 26

Lampiran 5 : Independent Samples Test (T-Test) .............................................. 28

Lampiran 6 : Uji Frekuensi ................................................................................... 29

Lampiran 7: Surat Kelurahan Teluk Dalam ....................................................... 35

Lampiran 8: Surat Kelurahan Pelambuan .......................................................... 39

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