5 Tanda Cewek Kamu SelingkuhShortlink: http://mlsbgt.de/L5mrg7

Ini adalah salah satu pembahasan klasik yang tidak akan pernah bosan diulang-ulang. Kalau kamu pemerhati majalah trendi ibukota, paling gak per 4 bulan sekali, topik ini akan diangkat. Dengan sudut pandang yang berbeda mungkin, tapi benang merahnya tetap sama, yaitu judul artikel ini. Nah, jadi apa tanda cewek kamu selingkuh? Kurang lebih kalau cewek kamu melakukan hal ini:

1. Dia Gak Rewel Lagi

Kamu pikir itu bagus? Kalau tiba-tiba dia gak nanya lagi kamu lagi dimana, sama siapa, pake baju apa, ngapain disana, jangan lama-lama, pulang jam berapa, udah makan belum, jemput aku dong? Tsk tsk bahaya anak muda. Kenapa cewek konstan melakukan hal tersebut adalah karena kamu selalu berada dalam arus pikirannya.  Ketika dia mulai berkurang kadar intensitasnya dan bukan karena lagi ngambek habis berantem sama kamu, itu tandanya, kamu udah gak ada di arus utama pikirannya lagi. Jadi siapa dong yang ada disana sekarang? Hmmm.

2. Menyembunyikan Panggilan Telepon dan Pesan yang Masuk

Biasanya dia selalu meninggalkan hapenya sembarangan atau kamu selalu bisa mengakses dan meminjam untuk main angry birds misalnya. Tapi akhir-akhir ini dia selalu menyembunyikan hapenya dari pandangan kamu. Oh dan dia juga mulai mematikan hapenya kalau lagi sama kamu. Hah apa? Biar gak terganggu pas lagi sama kamu? Kamu pikir itu manis? Tidak! Mungkin dia gak mau gebetannya nelpon pas lagi sama kamu. Mungkin loh ya. Oh dan history phone call atau messages yang terlalu bersih juga mencurigakan.

3. Merubah Ekstrim Penampilannya.

Ketika hal yang paling kamu suka dari dia adalah kuncir kudanya yang bikin gemes, atau kacamata gedenya yang bikin dia keliatan manis, dan dia tau kamu suka sama penampilan di yang seperti itu, eh tapi dia malah memotong pendek rambutnya dan pake lensa kontak warna ungu? Padahal dia tau kamu gak suka cewek rambut pendek dengan mata warna warni. Oh well mungkin dia lagi bosan aja atau, atau dia lagi berusaha menarik perhatian orang lain.

4. Memulai Pertengkaran

Kamu kentut depan dia aja bisa bikin dia ngambek seminggu? Padahal biasanya kalian main gede-gedean kentut? Oh atau tiba-tiba dia marah karena kamu bangun jam 9 pagi padahal kalian janjian jam 3 sore dan dia membatalkan pergi sama kamu. Yaa itu bisa jadi cara paling gampang untuk janjian dan ketemuan sama orang lain lagi sih.

5. Menuduh Kamu Selingkuh.

Bisa jadi proyeksi dari rasa bersalahnya ke kamu. Ketika tanpa tedeng aling-aling dia menuduh kamu selingkuh…hmm itu bisa jadi adalah semacam sinyal dan harapan kalau kamu juga melakukan hal yang sama maka dia akan tidak terlalu terlihat bersalah. Atau dia cari alasan aja untuk mutusin kamu.

Gimana gimana? Kalau kelima hal diatas ada di checklist di hubungan kamu dan dia… Yaudahlah, siap-siap aja menebar jala lagi di lautan. Paling gak kalau kamu putus karena diselingkuhin, calon cewek-cewek baru akan lebih simpati ke kamu dibandingkan sebaliknya. Hohohoho.

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“Such silence has an actual sound, the sound of disappearance.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, infidelity, marriage, seperation, silence 154 people liked it like

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“Earthquakes just happen. Tornadoes just happen. Your tongue does not just happen to fall into some other girls mouth!” ― Gemma Halliday, Deadly Cool tags: cheating, jealousy, kiss 137 people liked it like

“Unseen in the background, Fate was quietly slipping lead into the boxing-glove.” ― P.G. Wodehouse, Very Good, Jeeves! tags: cheating, fate, humor, misfortune, top-8, unfairness 123 people liked it like

“The truly scary thing about undiscovered lies is that they have a greater capacity to diminish us than exposed ones.” ― Cheryl Hughes

tags: cheating, honesty, integrity, lying, trust 115 people liked it like

“People generally didn't cheat in good relationships.” ― Emily Giffin, Something Blue tags: cheating, relationships 93 people liked it like

“A friend of mine told a story about a date with a guy she was really excited about: He stood her up. He then called her, begging her forgiveness and giving some excuse. She told him to get lost, telling him that he only gets one shot with her, and he blew it.” ― Greg Behrendt tags: cheating, date, dating, dumped, he-s-just-not-that-into-you 89 people liked it like

“Wait,” he said. “That’s not a word.”

I looked down to where, in a moment of desperation, I’d played zixic on a triple-word-score space.

“Uh, sure it is.”

“What’s it mean?”

“It’s sort of like…quixotic, but with more…”

“Bullshit?”

I laughed out loud. I’d never heard him swear before.

“More zeal. Hence the z.”

“Uh-huh. Use it in a sentence.”

“Um…’You are a zixic writer.’“

“I don’t believe this.”

“That you’re zixic?”

“That you’re trying to cheat at Scrabble.” He leaned back against my couch, shaking his head. “I mean, I was ready to accept the whole evil thing, but this is kind of extreme.” ― Richelle Mead, Succubus on Top tags: cheating, georgina-kincaid, scrabble 84 people liked it like

“I was steeped in denial, but my body knew.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 75 people liked it like

“I found love in the arms of another woman. Who needs two legs, a torso, or talking?” ― Jarod Kintz, This Book Has No Title tags: cheating, love, talking, torso, woman 67 people liked it like

“Daily I walk around my small, picturesque town with a thought bubble over my head: Person Going Through A Divorce. When I look at other people, I automatically form thought bubbles over their heads. Happy Couple With Stroller. Innocent Teenage Girl With Her Whole Life Ahead Of Her. Content Grandmother And Grandfather Visiting Town Where Their Grandchildren Live With Intact Parents. Secure Housewife With Big Diamond. Undamaged Group Of Young Men On Skateboards. Good Man With Baby In BabyBjörn Who Loves His Wife. Dogs Who Never Have To Worry. Young Kids Kissing Publicly. Then every so often I see one like me, one of the shambling gaunt women without makeup, looking older than she is: Divorcing Woman Wondering How The Fuck This Happened.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce

tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 58 people liked it like

“Declare your jihad on thirteen enemies you cannot see -egoism, arrogance, conceit, selfishness, greed, lust, intolerance, anger, lying, cheating, gossiping and slandering. If you can master and destroy them, then you will be read to fight the enemy you can see.” ― Al-Ghazali tags: anger, arrogance, cheating, conceit, egoism, gossiping, greed, intolerance, islam, jihad, lust, lying, selfishness, slandering 58 people liked it like

“I used to loathe ambivalence; now I adore it. Ambivalence is my new best friend.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: breaking-up, cheating, deception, divorce, infidelity, marriage, relationships 58 people liked it like

“Delusion detests focus and romance provides the veil.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, delusion, divorce, infidelity, marriage, relationships, romance, seperation 52 people liked it like

“He left a bit too easily and with obvious relief. His feet were swift and sure on the muddy path.”

― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 43 people liked it like

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“Bushwhacked, I examine my hands. Same hands. Rings still there but no longer valid.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, infidelity, marriage, seperation 32 people liked it like

“I have a new mantra, which I chant softly to myself: "Oh My God Oh My God.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, infidelity, marriage, seperation 31 people liked it like

“I mentally bless and exonerate anyone who has kicked a chair out from beneath her or swallowed opium in large chunks. My mind has met their environment, here in the void. I understand perfectly.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, death, divorce, infidelity, marriage, seperation, suicide 30 people liked it like

“I called to tell her I loved her, which was smart, because if I’d have done it in person, I’d have caught her with another man. I don’t care if he was my clone, it isn’t right and it pisses me off. I was backstabbed by myself.” ― Jarod Kintz, At even one penny, this book would be overpriced. In fact, free is too expensive, because you'd still waste time by reading it. tags: backstabbed, cheating, clone, love, smart 27 people liked it like

“Any way I slice reality it comes out poorly, and I feel an urge to not exist, something I have never felt before; and now here it comes with conviction, almost panic. I mentally bless and exonerate anyone who has kicked a chair out from beneath her or swallowed opium in large chunks. My mind has met their environment, here in the void. I understand perfectly.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, death, divorce, infidelity, marriage, seperation, suicide 24 people liked it like

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“I want to write a song about retaliation called, "Oh Yeah, and I Faked Every Orgasm...While You Were Out of Town.” ― Jarod Kintz, The Days of Yay are Here! Wake Me Up When They're Over.

tags: cheating, funny, humor, relationships, retaliation, revenge, sex 22 people liked it like

“My girlfriend has two aliases. Clones aside, it’s the only time I’ve ever felt like I was cheating on one person with the same person. ” ― Jarod Kintz, This is the best book I've ever written, and it still sucks

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“I know one thing about men," Bunny says with finality, leaving the room to check on A. "They never die when you want them to.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 46 people liked it like

“So many events and moments that seemed insignificant add up. I remember how for the last Valentine´s Day, N gave flowers but no card. In restaurants, he looked off into the middle distance while my hand would creep across the table to hold his. He would always let go first. I realize I can´t remember his last spontaneous gesture of affection.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: breaking-up, cheating, deception, divorce, infidelity, marriage, relationships 41 people liked it like

“Soon he was online every night until one or two a.m. Often he would wake up at three of four a.m. and go back online. He would shut down the computer screen when I walked in. In the past, he used to take the laptop to bed with him and we would both be on our laptops, hips touching. He stopped doing that, slipping off to his office instead and closing the door even when A was asleep. He started closing doors behind him. I was steeped in denial, but my body knew.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 33 people liked it like

“The snag about marriage is, it isn´t worth the divorce.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: breaking-up, cheating, deception, divorce, infidelity, marriage, relationships 32 people liked it like

“Definitely not," Talon said. "If you screw up like that, you don't get another chance."

"But what if he really loves her and it was a mistake?"

"It wasn't," Talon said firmly. "He'd keep his cockadoodle in his pants if he loved her. He wouldn't hurt the person he loved. And she should leave his ass for her own good.” ― Aggy Bird, Like a Sparrow Through the Heart tags: cheating, love 31 people liked it like

“Surprises, I feel now, are primarily a form of violence.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: breaking-up, cheating, deception, divorce, infidelity, marriage, relationships 28 people liked it

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“It´s like watching someone do a triple backflip dismount and land on two feet, solid, arms splayed in the air. I know I could never do it, don´t even know where I would begin to learn, but some people are built for it. He was handcrafted to leave, had practiced on other women since adolescence. I was one of an unnumbered series.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 27 people liked it like

“He announces that lately he keeps losing things. "Like your wife and child," I want to say, but don´t. At fourty, I´ve learned not to say everything clever, not to score every point.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: breaking-up, cheating, deception, divorce, infidelity, marriage, relationships 27 people liked it like

“I love you as the mother of my child": the kiss of death.Mother of His Child: demotion. I am beginning to see this truism: Mothers are not always wives. I have been stripped of a piece of self.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: breaking-up, cheating, deception, divorce, infidelity, marriage, relationships 27 people liked it like

“How could you do that to me?" I repeat. I don´t have to itemize. He knows what I speak of.Eventually N produces three answers, in this order:

1. "Because I am a complete rotter." I silently agree, but it´s a cop-out: I have maggots, therefore I am dead.2. "I was stressed at work and unhappy and we were always fighting...and you know I was just

crazy..."

I cut him off, saying, "You don´t get to be crazy. You did exactly what you chose to do."Which is true, he did. It is what he has always done. He therefore seems slightly puzzled at the need for further diagnosis, which may explain his third response:

3. "I don´t know."

This, I feel instinctively, is the correct answer. How can I stay angry with him for being what he is? I was, after all, his wife, and I chose him. No coincidences, that´s what Freud said. None. Ever.I wipe my eyes on my sleeve and walk toward the truck, saying to his general direction, "Fine. At least now I know: You don´t know."I stop and turn around and fire one more question: a bullet demanding attention in the moment it enters the skin and spreads outward, an important bullet that must be acknowledged."What did you feel?"After a lengthy pause, he answers. "I felt nothing."And that, I realize too late, was not the whole truth, but was a valid part of the truth.Oh, and welcome to the Serengeti. That too.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: breaking-up, cheating, deception, divorce, infidelity, marriage, relationships 26 people liked it like

“Someday I will have revenge. I know in advance to keep this to myself, and everyone will be happier. I do understand that I am expected to forgive N and his girlfriend in a timely fashion, and move on to a life of vegetarian cooking and difficult yoga positions and self-realization, and make this so much easier and more pleasant for all concerned.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: breaking-up, cheating, deception, divorce, infidelity, marriage, relationships 25 people liked it like

“She stabbed him with her wicked pretty knife, disrupted his simple life.She's a player, a heartbreaker,and now she breaks alone.” ― Coco J. Ginger tags: cheating, cheating-lips, friendship, heartbreaker, jamie-weise, love, passion, player 25 people liked it

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“It´s a little song about abandonment, and it goes something like this....” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 23 people liked it like

“I am replete with stamina in finding out every single fact I can about this whole affair.

Yet, I think, do I want to pull that thread? Do I want to unleash the truth, unravel deceit, and kill reality as I´ve known it? It is irreparable, if I do, from the moment we met until now. It is long. If I discover too much that is false about what I thought my past was, Time will be skewed even further. I already have a poor connection with the present. Example: I have no sense of what day it is. It´s better.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: breaking-up, cheating, deception, divorce, infidelity, marriage, relationships 22 people liked it like

“I travel back in time, falling back into what I know for certain, the historical data I cling to in order to not go mad, not assume I made a suicidal and well-informed error in marrying this man.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 21 people liked it like

“Would I cheat to save my soul?No.But to save my G.P.A.?

Yes.” ― Julie Anne Peters, Luna tags: cheating, grades, julie-anne-peters, luna, regan 20 people liked it like

“I am not ready to think of him as either insane or evil, to consider in full how I could love and have a child with such a person. I am not ready to think about anything, except ways in which this may still be averted.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 19 people liked it like

“I sensed he may have occasionally strayed in some of his past relationships. It was something I felt but ignored, a rent in the fabric of an otherwise splendid garment I thought I could mend. I thought I could live with it—I thought, yes and I admit it, that I would be different. That at the very least, middle age and children would slow him down; however, they seemed to accelerate his pace.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 19 people liked it like

“I played possum. I did this, as the possum does, out of fear.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 19 people liked it like

“I feel angry but not homocidal; this may be unlooked-for progress.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce

tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 17 people liked it like

“I should have known then it wasn´t nothing, as he called it. But I was eight months pregnant. No sense closing the barn door now, or so I thought. I swallowed the nothing, straightaway after the usual tears and denial.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 16 people liked it like

“The whole world seems tilted, my inner ear displaced by a hole where my spouse used to be.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation, spouses 15 people liked it like

“They ought to do away with divorce settlements. Instead, both parties should flip a coin. The winner gets to stay where he or she is and keep everything. The loser goes to Paraguay. That´s it.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 15 people liked it like

“God is great and God is good," Lisa says. "But where are the Apache attack helicopters when you need them?” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: breaking-up, cheating, deception, divorce, infidelity, marriage, relationships 14 people liked it like

“I want to own this transition, not to simply swallow the shame of it entire. I will push for every little irony.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 11 people liked it like

“Flannel shirts should be outlawed for ex husbands; I realize this now. Flannel shirts are to women what crotchless panties are to men.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 11 people liked it like

“Hatsumi had a pretty good idea that Nagasawa was sleeping around, but she never complained to him. She was seriously in love with him, but she never made demands.

'I don't deserve a girl like Hatsumi,' Nagasawa once said to me. I had to agree with him.” ― Haruki Murakami, Norwegian Wood tags: cheating, love 11 people liked it like

“Follow the Pfizer pill road!Follow the Pfizer pill road!Follow, follow, follow, follow,Follow the Pfizer pill road!” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation 10 people liked it like

“Irrationally, I think, Will You Marry Me? Four words. I Want a Divorce. Four words. I would like time to count the letters as well, but there is not time.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce tags: cheating, divorce, infidelity, marriage, seperation 8 people liked it like

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